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Love always trusts! So how can others trust me if I have been untrustworthy? How can I trust others if I feel betrayed by them?
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Our author says that "betrayal is a more blatant act than gossip." If I choose to gossip, I may not harbor ill will toward my victim. Yet, a betrayer destroys hearts and lives when she gives private/personal information that should have been held in confidence... in trust. Betrayal usually comes from someone in your "inside circle of friends". Judas betrayed Jesus!
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Once a person has been betrayed multiple times, it is hard to trust... to build intimate relationships... to go deep. Walls begin to be built for protection of the heart. A powerful example of this was on week one of this season's THE BIGGEST LOSER. My friend Sean, a contestant, was reminded by his coach Bob, "I'm not going anywhere, Sean! You can trust me!" What powerful words to a young man who was once in need of parents!
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I hope you are able to join us each day as we go through Deborah Smith Pegues 30 DAYS TO TAMING YOUR TONGUE challenge. I also hope you are able to join many of us each Tuesday evening as we watch NBC's THE BIGGEST LOSER.
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