It is GOD who BLESSES and TRANSFORMS...
This is a blog for women (not just moms) who:
(1) Desire to be transformed by JESUS' LOVE, HOLINESS, AND GRACE;
(2) Believe that GOD'S WORD is the true Spirit food for HIS HOLY SPIRIT who lives within us;
(3) Submit to GOD and walk this journey of life with HIM transforming us more and more into HIS likeness.
It's a blog about the POWER OF TRANSFORMED LIVES. Let's begin with yours and mine and pass it on... 1 + 1 + 1...
Since GOD's HOLY SPIRIT lives inside a christian, let's choose to be nurtured and transformed by feasting daily on HOLY SPIRIT food - GOD's WORD - The Holy Bible..
My regular posts stopped in 2013, with a major move and the chronic illness and eventual death of our oldest daughter. Yes, we grieve daily, yet I am determined to continue to let the LIGHT of my LORD and SAVIOR shine through me. I have tried to start posting again, over the last few years, but have not been consistent. So, I think the biggest blessing for you and me both will be to intersperse some new posts while revisiting some of the former posts. Let's begin with "Oh, the JOY!" as we head into living through Fall 2019; meeting back here 1-2 days a week.
If you need daily encouragement, you will find plenty by clicky on past posts. When reading earlier posts, you will see that I often posted daily, following this format: ...Sunday in the SON, Meditation Monday, GratiTuesday, Women in the WORD Wednesday, Transforming Thursday, Family Fellowship Friday, Ketchup & Mustard Saturday.
There's a whole lot here! Take your time to browse.
Please come back and visit each week. Welcome!
Because of JESUS, we can be family,
Patti
TRANSFORMED MOMS:MOMS TRANSFORMED
Monday, August 31, 2009
My Deliverer - Praying for a miracle for Jessica Sikes!
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There is already much on this blog that you can return to each day and access. Thank you for loving the LORD!
Sunday, August 30, 2009
MY DELIVERER
"The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; 3 my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation. He is my stronghold, my refuge and my savior- from violent men you save me. 4 I call to the LORD, who is worthy of praise, and I am saved from my enemies."
3 O LORD, what is man that you care for him, the son of man that you think of him? 4 Man is like a breath;his days are like a fleeting shadow. 5 Part your heavens, O LORD, and come down..."
My Deliverer is coming - my Deliverer is standing by
My Deliverer is coming - my Deliverer is standing by
Saturday, August 29, 2009
LEGACY...SING IT...
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LEGACY
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I don't mind if you've got something nice to say about me
And I enjoy an accolade like the rest
You could take my picture and hang it in a gallery
Of all who's who and so-n-so's that used to be the best
At such'n'such ... it wouldn't matter much
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I won't lie, it feels alright to see your name in lights
We all need an 'Atta boy' or 'Atta girl'
But in the end I'd like to hang my hat on more besides
The temporary trappings of this world
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I want to leave a legacy
How will they remember me?
Did I choose to love?
Did I point to You enough
To make a mark on things?
I want to leave an offering
A child of mercy and grace who blessed
Your name unapologetically
And leave that kind of legacy
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I don't have to look too far or too long awhile
To make a lengthy list of all that I enjoy
It's an accumulating trinket and a treasure pile
Where moth and rust, thieves and such will soon enough destroy
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Not well traveled, not well read, not well-to-do or well bred
Just want to hear instead, "Well Done" good and faithful one...
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BRAVE
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The gate is wide
The road is paved in moderation
The crowd is kind and quick to pull you in
Welcome to the middle ground
You're safe and sound and
Until now it's where I've been
'Cause it's been fear that ties me down to everything
But it's been love, Your love, that cuts the strings
So long status quo
I think I just let go
You make me want to be brave
The way it always was
Is no longer good enough
You make me want to be brave
Brave, brave
I am small
And I speak when I'm spoken to
But I am willing to risk it all
I say Your name
Just Your name a
nd I'm ready to jump
Even ready to fall...
Why did I take this vow of compromise?
Why did I try to keep it all inside?
So long status quo
I think I just let go
You make me want to be brave
The way it always was
Is no longer good enough
You make me want to be brave
Brave, brave
I've never known a fire that didn't begin with a flame
Every storm will start with just a drop of rain
But if you believe in me
That changes everything
So long, I'm gone
So long status quo
I think I just let go
You make me want to be brave
I wanna be brave
The way it always was
Is no longer good enough
You make me want to be brave
Brave, brave
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HOLY
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How many roads did I travel
Before I walked down one that led me to You?
How many dream did unravel
Before I believed in a hope that was true?
How long? How far?
What was meant to fulfill only emptied me still
And all You ever wanted…
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Only me on my knees
Singing holy, holy
And somehow
All that matters now is You are holy, holy
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How many deaths did I die
Before I was awakened to new life again?
How many half truths did bear witness to
‘Til the proof was disproved in the end?
How long? How far?
What was meant to illuminate shadowed me still
And all You ever wanted…
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Only me on my knees
Singing holy, holy
And somehow
All that matters now is You are holy, holy
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All I have is gratitude to offer You...
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HOLD ON
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It will find you at the bottom of a bottle
It will find you at the needle's end
It will find you when you beg and steal and borrow
It will follow you into a stranger's bed
It will find you when they serve you with the papers
It will find you when the locks have changed again
It will find you when you've called in all your favors
It will meet you at the bridge's highest ledge
So baby don't look down, it's a long way
The sun will come around to a new day
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So hold on
Love will find you
Hold on
He's right behind you now
Just turn around
And love will find you
It will find you when the doctor's head is shaking
It will find you in a boardroom, mostly dead
It will crawl into the foxhole where you're praying
It will curl up in your halfway empty bed
So baby don't believe that it's over
Maybe you can't see 'round the corner?
To hang between two thieves in the darkness
Love must believe you are worth it...
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RIVER GOD
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Rolling River God
Little Stones are smooth
Only once the water passes through
So I am a stone rough and grainy still
Trying to reconcile this river's chill
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CHORUS:
But when I close my eyes and feel you rushing by
I know that time brings change and change takes time
And when the sunset comes my prayer would be just this one
that you might pick me up and notice that
I am just a little smoother in your hand
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Sometimes raging wild sometimes swollen high
never have I known this river dry
The deepest part of You is where I want to stay
and feel the sharpest edges wash away
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CHORUS
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GRATITUDE
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Send some rain, would You send some rain?
'Cause the earth is dry and needs to drink again
And the sun is high and we are sinking in the shade
Would You send a cloud, thunder long and loud?
Let the sky grow black and send some mercy down
Surely You can see that we are thirsty and afraid
But maybe not, not today
Maybe You'll provide in other ways
And if that's the case . . .
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(Chorus)
We'll give thanks to YouWith gratitude
For lessons learned in how to thirst for You
How to bless the very sun that warms our face
If You never send us rain
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Daily bread, give us daily bread
Bless our bodies, keep our children fed
Fill our cups, then fill them up again tonight
Wrap us up and warm us through
Tucked away beneath our sturdy roofs
Let us slumber safe from danger's view this time
Or maybe not, not today
Maybe You'll provide in other ways
And if that's the case . . .
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(Chorus)
We'll give thanks to You With gratitude
A lesson learned to hunger after You
That a starry sky offers a better view if no roof is overhead
And if we never taste that bread
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Oh, the differences that often are between
What we want and what we really need
So grant us peace, Jesus, grant us peace
Move our hearts to hear a single beat
Between alibis and enemies tonight
Or maybe not, not today
Peace might be another world away
And if that's the case . . .
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(Chorus)
We'll give thanks to You With gratitude
For lessons learned in how to trust in You
That we are blessed beyond what we could ever dream
In abundance or in need
And if You never grant us peace
But Jesus, would You please . . .
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Friday, August 28, 2009
LEGACY...GIGATTAATTGIG...
Building a LEGACY in Christ is happening all around me! People growing more and more in their understanding and knowledge of the Christ and wanting to share that with others. Daddies, mommies, and children are learning that no matter what the circumstances: GIGATTAATTGIG. I have some pictures that I'd like to share with you of some of the "legacies" that I've been a part of in the last few weeks - both in person or via technology. For those of you who have joined us for this summer's study - let's remember that it is the Virtuous Woman who fears the LORD that leaves His legacy - GIGATTAATTGIG.
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"Children's children are a crown to the aged,
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Her name is Chloe! She is our grandaughter... and many have and are leaving her a legacy in the LORD - GIGATTAATTGIG!
"He who fears the LORD has a secure fortress,
After flying back to Jersey from Michigan, I joined Steve on a date.
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Here is Cathy and Doc. Cathy showed up at the wedding in spite of her pain! God is leaving a very convicting legacy through Cathy and her years of battling health problems. She has such a positive attitude and desire to minister to others alongside her husband "Doc" - an amazingly servant hearted man. They both believe that GIGATTAATTGIG!
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Proverbs 31:28
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Thursday, August 27, 2009
LEGACY...TRANSFORMING LOVE...P.K. ...
"See, I will refine and test them,
"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
LEGACY...OF LOVE...
1 Peter 4:7-8
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"The end of all things is near.
Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled
so that you can pray.
Above all, love each other deeply,
because love covers over a multitude of sins."
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James 4:17
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"Anyone, then,
who knows the good he ought to do
and doesn't do it, sins."
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Fill in the blank with the name of the person you are having trouble loving. A virtuous woman loves even her enemies and knows that love covers a multitude of sins!
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1 Corinthians 13:4-8 paraphrased
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My love for ________is patient,
my love for _________is kind.
My love for ________does not envy,
my love for ________does not boast,
my love for ________it is not proud.
My love for _________is not rude,
my love for __________is not self-seeking,
my love for _________ is not easily angered,
my love for _________keeps no record of wrongs.
My love for _________does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
My love for _________always protects,
my love for __________always trusts,
my love for __________always hopes,
my love for __________ always perseveres.
My love for __________ never fails."
NOTE: My love for ___________ is agape love...
which is the love that is of God!
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Tuesday, August 25, 2009
LEGACY... THEY'RE ALREADY LIVING IT...
- A - who recently connected with her "long lost brother" and is now preparing for a new school year of homeschooling her two elementary children...
- A - who lost her second child to miscarriage last week and lives across the ocean from her extended family...
- B - who steadfastly works through "step-family" challenges as she supports her husband in his self-employed business and raises several children, including a child with special needs
- B - who has landed with her family this week on the island of Okinawa to begin her life away from her Pitman sisters in a foreign land :0(
- B - who rises to each new day to love and care for two wonderful children with special needs while still serving many people in our congregation
- C - who has welcomed into her home, her in-laws (from another country/culture) to love and support while managing raising 3 pre-schoolers and encouraging her husband who must work 2 jobs
- C - is a cycle breaker who deeply loves her two little ones and her husband who has his office in their home where he works daily...
- C - who due to the economy, now has her parents and sister living with her, her husband, and two sons....
- D - who has shared her battle with perfectionism and her challenges of homeschooling one child out of necessity while two others go off to school...
- D - who works round the clock being there for her mother who is in assisted living, her husband who has some major health challenges, a young adult son with special needs who has lost his job, and a myriad of others that she serves....
- D - who as a single mom at home right now lives with excruciating back pain...
- E - who embraces the challenge of being a single mom with young adult children living at home...
- H - who moved to a new apartment a few weeks ago and has several children / grandchildren with many health challenges... she returns to work at a difficult job...
- J -works in their "home office" to help her husband as his construction company prepares to build our new church building...
- K - still grieving the death of her young brother-in-law, lovingly cares for her family, including her mother who has major special needs....
- K - who has raised many children and is now living with the adjustment of the day, recently, when the last one left the nest and her husband retired to be home :O)
- L - who became a born -again christian a week ago has been diligently reading / seeking to become a Christlike woman...
- L - who in a little over a month's time will pack up a lifetime of memories to move into a condo... go to help with a grandbaby being born for two weeks... return to move into her new place... leave immediately on a trip with her husband... come home to begin teaching our "school year" Tuesday morning ladies class...
- M - who is still grieving the loss of her mother, has needed to return to full-time work and desperately wants to have a second child...
- M - who continues to recover from her house burning... basks in the joy of reuniting with half sisters she had never met, and daily lives to protect her young son who cannot eat protein...
- M - who works during the school year and immerses herself in serving and befriending her family and our church's teen group year round...
- M - who has had life challenges that have pushed her deep into God's word and prayer this summer... she prepares to teach our Tuesday class for the month of September... 30 Days to Taming the Tongue...
- R - who plays the role of single mom since her husband is on the road most weeks... there have been multiple family injuries the last few months requiring many doctor visits, ER, etc.
- S - who has had major health problems that have required surgeries, being out of work... and then returning to work only to be transferred to a new position...
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I love these women! They are transparent, humble, and sowing a legacy of love!
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AND, before you sign off... I just want to share with you who benefits when we leave a legacy... CHILDREN!!!! GRANDCHILDREN!!!! Here is our new grandaughter Chloe this last weekend as she hung out with "the other grandparents"! What a rich heritage in Christ Chloe already has! Click on picture to link to more gorgeous pictures!
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NOTE: Tuesday morning after posting this, I got word that one of the women listed above is at the hospital with her husband who had a heart attack last night (they have two elementary school age children). Please pray for "J" and family.
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Monday, August 24, 2009
LEGACY...PONDERED...
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MEDITATION MONDAY
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As we end our study of the Virtuous Woman this week, I must admit it's not like any other study of Proverbs 31 that I have ever experienced. Instead of focusing on the "work ethic" of this woman, we have followed Vicki Courtney's guide in looking at her foundational spiritual nature. Let's embrace this portrait painted by spending some time pondering the words of yesterday's post. Think about the legacy that a virtuous woman would leave who is indeed "the light of the world."
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Sunday, August 23, 2009
LEGACY
What a legacy Jesus Christ left us with only 33 years lived on this planet! He was THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD. He said that He wanted His followers to be THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD. How? Certainly, His Be-attitudes tell us how! If you look at our study of the Virtuous Woman over the last month or so, you will see a connection...
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- A VIRTUOUS WOMAN.... fears THE LORD.
- THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD IS... poor in spirit - knowing "it's not about her"... she submits to the God Who is in control; she weeps over her sins and the sins of the world that have alienated her from this Holy GOD...
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- A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS... a WOMAN OF WORTH.
- THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD... meekly gives the reins of her life over to her LORD because she knows He loves her enough for her to put her full trust in Him to lead and guide her...
. - A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS.... a WOMAN OF WISDOM.
- THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD IS....hungry and thirsty for righteousness; she craves the wisdom from above that only comes from her LORD...
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- A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS...a WOMAN OF PURPOSE...
- THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD IS... led to be merciful... pure in heart... a peacemaker...
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- A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS...a WOMAN WHO SURPASSES THEM ALL...
- THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD IS... willing to go so far as to be persecuted for righteousness sake... to be made fun of... to be lied about... she turns the other cheek... she loves even her enemies... she is a peculiar person... she leaves an amazing LEGACY...
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This week's theme song is LEGACY by Nicole Nordemann. Other songs by Nicole Nordeman follow on the playlist. After following these words with the first playlist song, feel free to pause it and watch the video.
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I don't mind if you've got something nice to say about me
And I enjoy an accolade like the rest
You could take my picture and hang it in a gallery
Of all who's who and so-n-so's
that used to be the best At such'n'such ...
it wouldn't matter much
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I won't lie, it feels alright to see your name in lights
We all need an 'Atta boy' or 'Atta girl'
But in the end I'd like to hang my hat on more besides
The temporary trappings of this world
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I want to leave a legacy
How will they remember me?
Did I choose to love?
Did I point to You enough To make a mark on things?
I want to leave an offering
A child of mercy and grace
who blessed Your name unapologetically
And leave that kind of legacy
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I don't have to look too far or too long awhile
To make a lengthy list of all that I enjoy
It's an accumulating trinket and a treasure pile
Where moth and rust, thieves and such will soon enough destroy
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Not well traveled, not well read,
not well-to-do or well bred
Just want to hear instead,
"Well Done" good and faithful one...
Saturday, August 22, 2009
LORD... MOVE... I SEE THAT THIS IS HOW YOU DO...
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- MONEY
- BODY
- MIND
- IDOLS
- RELATIONSHIPS
- SELF WORTH
- YOU, GOD!
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It's been six years ago today that my Granny went home to be with the LORD at the age of 95. She was such a "where the rubber meets the road" kind of a person. Many parts of her story are amazing to me. What stands out the most are some choices that she made along the journey:
- GOD WAS #1
- SHE AND HER CHILDREN WOULD WORSHIP AND HONOR GOD EVEN THOUGH HER ALCOHOLIC HUSBAND CHOSE NOT TO
- SHE WOULD BE THE PROVERBS 31 VIRTUOUS WOMAN IN SPITE OF HER HUSBAND BEING A NON-CHRISTIAN
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When I was in elementary school, I snuggled up on my Grandpa's lap and said, "I'm sorry that we won't be in heaven together!" It was after that statement that he began to read and study... became a christian... eventually became an elder...
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I wish I could interview both of them today. I'd ask them what their regrets are and what they would do differently. Yet, again, I think they're both enjoying heaven too much to take time to think about it.
- God, I'm ready to not live with anymore regrets... I'm ready for You to move in me and through me...
God, I'm ready to not live with anymore regrets... I'm ready for You to move in me and through me...
Friday, August 21, 2009
LORD... MOVE ME FROM "I CAN'T" TO "I CAN..."
Thursday, August 20, 2009
LORD...MOVE...IN YOUR PERFECT TIMING...
In my lifetime, I have found that sometimes God does move quickly and allows me to move quickly but most of the time the journey has been about waiting... learning patience... being kind in the process...God's timing...
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Here are 3 short videos of the metamorphasis of a butterfly. The first one is a short documentary that explains some things. The second is the process with some animation that gives you more food for thought. The last one, has been speeded up to let you see the process quickly from start to finish.
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Several years ago, when visiting The Butterfly Palace in Branson, Missouri, I was struck by one comment made by a guide, "The faster the process, the less beautiful the butterfly... "
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As I watched these three videos, I couldn't help but think of different words/concepts that translate to the ongoing transformation that occurs in the spiritual life. I'm thinking of the way God moves or how much I allow Him to move in my daily transformation. Here are some of my words and the videos:
- hungry
- seek / search
- eat / feed
- stages
- rest
- wait
- submit
- wriggle / stretch
- pain
- develop inside
- unknown / mystery
- one another (compassion; burden bearing)
- safety belt / protection
- soft / hard
- split apart
- pulls self out
- emerges
- sun (Son) does it's (His) work
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Wednesday, August 19, 2009
LORD MOVE...I WILL DRAW NEAR TO YOU...
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Who is moving in your life? Is God moving? Have you moved away from walking with Him minute by minute? Have you ever known the confidence of moving in step with Him?
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These two scriptures...
- Colossians 1:17 - "...all things were created by Him and for Him. 17He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.
- Hebrews 4:16 - "Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need."
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... are a response to the first words of this week's theme song:
I can't find the words to pray
I'm a little down today
Can you help me?
Can you hold me?
I feel like a million miles away
And I don't know what to say
Can you hear me anyway?
What I need is for you to reach out your hand
You have taught me
No matter what
you'd understand...
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All of creation shows us that He cares and understands much more than we can comprehend...
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Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace,
so that we may receive mercy
and find grace to help in time of need...
IN HIM ALL THINGS HOLD TOGETHER!!!!
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Tuesday, August 18, 2009
LORD...MOVE...MY HEART TO GRATITUDE...
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Monday, August 17, 2009
Sunday, August 16, 2009
LORD... MOVE...
SUNDAY IN THE SON
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I have friends and family who are going through very difficult and stressful times. Just in the last week, I've personally talked to or corresponded with one or more who:
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- do not have a job
- are having a really hard time seeing where the money is going to come from
- have a very sick child or family member
- have lost a child by miscarriage this week
- are extremely sick or in pain themselves
- have been deceived or disappointed by their spouses
- have had a restraining order put on their spouses
- are considering divorce
- are "in a funk" or battling depression/anxiety
- have choices to make about their future and are struggling with the decision making process
- have been extremely hurt by the words of another
- feel stabbed in the back
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No need to go on! You get the picture! LIFE IS HARD.... yet, God is sooooo good! This week's song was suggested to me by a sister who has been going through very difficult circumstances for quite some time. I've thought about it and decided that this week, is INSPIRATIONAL VIDEO week on Transformed Moms. The LORD willing, each day I will attempt to post an inspirational video to encourage you on the journey of a Virtuous Woman. May the LORD continue to move in and through each one of us as we put one foot of faith in front of the other...
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Song by FFH:
LORD MOVE OR MOVE ME
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I can't find the words to pray,
I'm a little down today
Can You help me,
Can You hold me?
I feel a million miles away,
And I don't know what to say
Can You hear me anyway?
What I need is for You to reach out Your hand
You have taught me no matter what You'd understand
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CHORUS:
Lord move in the way,
that I've never seen before
Cause there's a mountain in the way
and a lock on the door
I'm drifting away,
waves are crashing on the shore
So Lord move (move), or move me.
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I've looked every where to find a simple peace of mind
But, I can't find nothing on my own
So I gotta leave myself behind,
take up this cross of mine
Give away everything I hold onto Lord
I know the only way is through this
But Lord, I know I need You to help me do this
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CHORUS
Lord move in the way,
that I've never seen before
Cause there's a mountain in the way
and a lock on the door
I'm drifting away,
waves are crashing on the shore
So Lord move (move), or move me.
Out of this place of complacency
To a place of fellowship with Thee
'Cause I am weak,
but Lord, You are so strong
And You know it's been way too long
It's been way too long
CHORUS:
Lord move in the way,
that I've never seen before
Cause there's a mountain in the way
and a lock on the door
I'm drifting away,
waves are crashing on the shore
So Lord move (move)...,
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And be sure to also hook here for other stories of faith,
encouragement and inspiration:
http://GIGATTAATTGIG.blogspot.com
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Saturday, August 15, 2009
HOUSEHOLD OF FAITH... FAILURE IS PART OF THE FAITH JOURNEY... SO WHY ARE WE SO AFRAID????
KETCHUP AND MUSTARD SATURDAY
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"Simon, Simon,
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Later in his life,
Peter had this to say in 1 Peter 5:8-11
after he had learned a thing or two :0)
"Be self-controlled and alert.
Your enemy the devil prowls around
like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.
Resist him,
standing firm in the faith,
because you know that your brothers
throughout the world
are undergoing the same kind of sufferings.
And the God of all grace,
who called you to his eternal glory in Christ,
after you have suffered a little while,
will himself restore you and make you strong,
firm and steadfast.
To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen. "
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